Ranjini - Our Love Story
Ranjini Thankappan :True love is a real blessing!
Sanjay is a Maharashtrian born and raised in Amravati (in Maharashtra). I am a Malayali born in Thrissur and raised in Nagpur.
We met when I first joined the Jawahar Navodaya Vidyalayas (JNV) in Amravati in 1994 in Class 11.
He was notorious for his mischief and I was one of the toppers in our class.
It was only after 18 months or so after I was admitted, that we first spoke to each other, quite by chance and became friends.
JNV being a residential school, we had a lot of opportunities to meet and talk.
My teachers and friends got worried about my scores in board exams after this distraction.
Later some of Sanjay's good friends told me that he was in love with me.
They advised me to stay away, study well and score good marks.
A relationship or marriage was next to impossible for us.
I could understand that we were more than just friends but I kept a distance did not meet him or talk much.
By the time our board exams got over and my parents came to take me home, I did not realise that I also had feelings for him.
Yet I left the campus without saying a word to him.
The school authorities had informed my parents about my friendship with him.
Back home my mother had a close eye on me and watched my every move.
I somehow managed to post a letter telling him, to forget about this friendship and move on.
After school I joined Engineering College in Nagpur and moved to the college girls hostel.
Some three months into the college, Sanjay turns up at the hostel with flowers and chocolates.
I was surprised and shocked to see him.
He told me he could not forget this friendship and asked me to be in touch.
He had joined a medical college in Kolhapur.
We may be the last generation to have written letters.
In those letters we talked about our families.
I learnt that his father was primary school teacher and his mother, a homemaker.
His family depended on farming.
He learnt that my father was an engineer and my mother, a principal of a JNV school.
There was a huge socio-economic and cultural difference in our families.
By the end of our first year in graduation, we confessed our feelings for each other.
And I told him that he has to convince my parents to marry me.
Life had been roller-coaster ride since then.
It took eight years for us to convince our parents.
Finally got we got married in 2005.
It was a south Indian engagement in Thrissur and a Maharashtrian wedding at Amravati.
After nine years of marriage we are blessed with a five-year-old daughter and two-year-old son.
I feel blessed to have Sanjay in my life.
His family is wonderful and they adore me.
I won their hearts and Sanjay is the responsible son-in-law.
He is a vegetarian, likes Avial and Sambar more than phiki dal.
I am a non-vegetarian, now loves dal chaval, and aloo bhatte ki sabji and roti.
We are now settled in Chennai.
I work as a software engineer, and Sanjay is a diabetologist.
The best part of our relationship is that we liked each other when we were nobody.
And we managed to stay together and committed through thick and thin.
True love is a real blessing!
Source from : http://www.rediff.com/getahead/slide-show/slide-show-1-2-states-three-ceremonies-one-day/20140424.htm#3
Ranjini - Our Love Story
Ranjini Thankappan :True love is a real blessing!
Sanjay is a Maharashtrian born and raised in Amravati (in Maharashtra). I am a Malayali born in Thrissur and raised in Nagpur.
We met when I first joined the Jawahar Navodaya Vidyalayas (JNV) in Amravati in 1994 in Class 11.
He was notorious for his mischief and I was one of the toppers in our class.
It was only after 18 months or so after I was admitted, that we first spoke to each other, quite by chance and became friends.
JNV being a residential school, we had a lot of opportunities to meet and talk.
My teachers and friends got worried about my scores in board exams after this distraction.
Later some of Sanjay's good friends told me that he was in love with me.
They advised me to stay away, study well and score good marks.
A relationship or marriage was next to impossible for us.
I could understand that we were more than just friends but I kept a distance did not meet him or talk much.
By the time our board exams got over and my parents came to take me home, I did not realise that I also had feelings for him.
Yet I left the campus without saying a word to him.
The school authorities had informed my parents about my friendship with him.
Back home my mother had a close eye on me and watched my every move.
I somehow managed to post a letter telling him, to forget about this friendship and move on.
After school I joined Engineering College in Nagpur and moved to the college girls hostel.
Some three months into the college, Sanjay turns up at the hostel with flowers and chocolates.
I was surprised and shocked to see him.
He told me he could not forget this friendship and asked me to be in touch.
He had joined a medical college in Kolhapur.
We may be the last generation to have written letters.
In those letters we talked about our families.
I learnt that his father was primary school teacher and his mother, a homemaker.
His family depended on farming.
He learnt that my father was an engineer and my mother, a principal of a JNV school.
There was a huge socio-economic and cultural difference in our families.
By the end of our first year in graduation, we confessed our feelings for each other.
And I told him that he has to convince my parents to marry me.
Life had been roller-coaster ride since then.
It took eight years for us to convince our parents.
Finally got we got married in 2005.
It was a south Indian engagement in Thrissur and a Maharashtrian wedding at Amravati.
After nine years of marriage we are blessed with a five-year-old daughter and two-year-old son.
I feel blessed to have Sanjay in my life.
His family is wonderful and they adore me.
I won their hearts and Sanjay is the responsible son-in-law.
He is a vegetarian, likes Avial and Sambar more than phiki dal.
I am a non-vegetarian, now loves dal chaval, and aloo bhatte ki sabji and roti.
We are now settled in Chennai.
I work as a software engineer, and Sanjay is a diabetologist.
The best part of our relationship is that we liked each other when we were nobody.
And we managed to stay together and committed through thick and thin.
True love is a real blessing!
Source from : http://www.rediff.com/getahead/slide-show/slide-show-1-2-states-three-ceremonies-one-day/20140424.htm#3
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